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Are You a Hardcore Winner, or a Blatant Loser in Life? How To Change It.

4 min readJun 10, 2025

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Hi again, my family, friends, foes, fiends, and all of you funky folks!

Let’s get to it for just one cotton-pickin’ minute. Life isn’t some fluffy, feel-good rom-com movie where everything magically works out in the end of the 2 hour flick, just because you wished for it. Nope. Life is a battlefield, and you’re either winning or losing — no in-between, ever. But here’s the kicker: you get to decide which side you’re on.

So, are you a hardcore winner, charging forward like a rhino of success, or are you stuck in blatant, nose picking, other-people-blaming loser mode, making excuses and blaming everything else for your lack of progress? And most importantly — how the hell do you change it if you’re on the wrong side?

Winners vs. Losers: The Mindset Divide

First, let’s define the difference. It’s not about money, fame, or material crap — it’s about mindset, habits, and relentless action.

Winners:

  • Take 100% responsibility for their lives. No blaming the economy, the government, or their third-grade teacher, Ms Hartworthy.
  • Set goals and get on with crushing them. They don’t just think about success — they execute over and over.
  • Learn constantly. Books, TED courses, mentors — they’re always leveling themselves up.
  • Embrace failure as learning and feedback. They…

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Dean Benson
Dean Benson

Written by Dean Benson

married 36+ yrs. 2 grown daughters, "On Air Personality" for SKY7music.com Middays on the "Only Classic Rock" channel or deanbensonrocks.io roadmapmogul.com

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